The work environment and the world in general can be a harsh place. There is a lot going on, people doing their best (or not) to get the job done, and people who are just there for what they need and they want to get it and leave. People have agendas, are in a hurry, and have places to go and people to see. Here are some of the tips that I have learned over time that go a long way to making that human connection just a bit brighter. Any interaction is an opportunity to fill someone with hope! These tips will go a long way towards making you someone that people want on their team. 

Over Communicate

Communication is the biggest breakdown that I have experienced over the years. If something doesn’t get done, a customer is angry, or there is something missing, it usually can be traced back to a miscommunication or some sort of breakdown in the chain of messaging. I solve this problem as much as I can by making a point to what I call ‘over-communicate’. I would rather someone tell me that I already told them that than for an issue to arise from a lack of communication. I keep people up to date on projects more than most and I try to let them know of every change or improvement along the line. Obviously, you don’t need to tell them every single detail, but consistent updates, especially on time-sensitive things, will go a long way. 

Always Have A Smile

If your mood is down, others can consciously or subconsciously sense that. I try not to let anything get me down while I’m interacting with others. If I am having an off day, partly because of personal needs, but also because I don’t want to drag other’s moods down, I will choose to be by myself in my office as much as possible. Don’t just walk by everyone, take a moment to give them a smile and pass on some light. I love asking people how their day is going as I pass them in the hall. It makes them feel cared for and gives them a bit of light and joy in their day. 

Don’t Be a Negative Nelly

Along the lines of the previous suggestion, if you are dealing with something or even someone at work, don’t be the person who complains and groans about life’s issues or about another co-worker. It never works out for anyone. Plus, it’s just not really appropriate. Every workplace has that one person who seemingly has an awful life and loves to talk about how horrible it is to everyone. My mood can be very sensitive to my environment, so I have to be careful, but these people can really drag me down and put me in the dumps. So, be careful not to be that person. 

Be A Good Listener

You will go far if you can hone the skill of listening. Whether that be with friends and allowing them to spill their guts to you as you listen wholeheartedly and with a lot of care, or if you are an employee trying to learn the ropes, or even just cultivate relationships with your co-workers. Listening is key and it’s so important to be able to listen and not have to be the one talking all the time. I have learned so much by just being willing to listen. 

Work Hard and Do Your Best

Bosses, family, everyone really appreciates a hard worker who is willing to throw in some elbow grease and get-er-done. Work hard at everything in life and do your best while you are at it. A good work ethic is rare these days and it is one of the best life skills you will ever cultivate, in my opinion. A good work ethic can take you just as far as an education can in a lot of cases.

Don’t Make Excuses

Apologize like a boss. Own it. If you made a mistake, or if something went wrong on a project you were heading up, apologizing and taking responsibility and ownership places you in an advantageous spot in any relationship. This works with siblings, family, friends, co-workers, bosses, and just about anyone. If you are willing to own up to a mistake and be honest with those around you without feeling the need to defend yourself or explain it away, you will go far. Not that you take responsibility for something you didn’t do, but if you goofed up, don’t beat around the bush trying to make an excuse. Own it and apologize like a boss. You won’t regret it. 

Stay Tuned for Part Two of this post next week! What is a tip you have? I’d love to hear your thoughts!

Blessings,